To party or not to party

Dilemma. In a few weekends is a good friend's birthday, and it just happens to fall on Saturday, primetime. General interest is roused, so if I book it, they will come.

The ups: it's a party. I like to party.

The downs: the money I really need and I would hate to have to ask for it from some or all attendees, the health, the fact that it could never come close to my birthday bash (ha), and the cleanup, which took about 4 hours by myself (I'm 80% sure nobody will stick around to help...).

Anyone got a coin?

While the negative list seems larger in size, the weight of that five letter word above it is enormous. I'm pretty sure this will be a one-sided coin that I flip...